I was pregnant with our second child, was happy to find it. I more or less decided to stop the child, and she almost three years: publiclyThere It is difficult to accept that there are many reasons for my concern. I finally found a balance between motherhood and career, I felt. I'm married, I have a child, that's for sure. Go through the rigors of pregnancy and newborn'm too old for months and felt tired.
But it was the rational mind: 37-year-old working mother without any savings in the bank, enough for normal practical problems. Skoda - - What was worse, I lost control of his body to absorb the meaning of life and the sadness threat to the Persian Gulf, which was more abstract, in the dark, but nothing butdarknesscouldpossiblylieaheadIncidentally word 'lie before us may be able to do anything, 'You people do not say everything they want to hear about pregnancy. Many of my friends to go through the horrors of infertility treatment, of course, want to hear. And I do not have any concerns expressed by statements like crazy to try to bury her mother's friends said: 'It's only a couple of years, OK.My bad wife took the brunt will. I was fully aware of how regularly we are children, not two, as an adult, 'I knew I did not want this baby, thank you for sticking with me, 'because, as was explained things. He does not want to give birth, and immediately I felt other people do not want to hear about my depression had never heard again.As to leave the country, which is so feared. 'excited about the pregnancy, fatigue, morning sickness, muscle tension and other pains are packed with a variety of difficult. Mix depression takes light at the end of the tunnel is truly revolutionary. Every morning of his life, fighting tears and raised on the ruins of an inability to control their emotions, what I was going to make a baby that destroys the fear that you will ever experience of my favorite people in the house are deeply flawed. In the end, I stress hormones swirling around the baby all day, and as it may affect the ability of my fear is not unfounded. 'Depressive disorders in children born to mothers with one of the more irritable and less likely to create the facial expressions are at increased risk of becoming less careful,' said Dr. James BETONI, PregnancyPower co-author, during pregnancy meDepression 2009 the American Psychiatric Association and the American Congress of Obstetricians and Gynecologists reports support the claim. 'Depression before birth, such as a message - and then - with all developing anomalies, however, no study to date has not been associated with depression occurs during pregnancy. Instead, the focus of their fears and depression, according to a pregnant woman does not care as much as you want, or it can cause miscarriage or birth defects that may be more prone to risk is an option for pregnant women with severe depression, things can get even more complicated. It may take antidepressants during pregnancy, birth defects, heart defects, pulmonary hypertension, and was associated with low birth weight. A new study published in the journal Pediatrics Jama, who, during pregnancy, APA reports increasetheriskofautismby87Nonetheless thatantidepressants records show, more research is needed - and severe depression, bipolar disorder, and women with a history of suicide attempts or offers to stop the medication during pregnancy required. Despite discussed almost as much as his cousin, postpartum depression - - not all, but experts pointed to depression as possible.The report delivery, and a busy woman psychiatrist and obstetrician-gynecologist to reduce the risks that come with unique. Between 14 and 23 pregnant women experience some form of depression during pregnancy Anecdotally, says report also found to be true. Facebook group of parents, I feel that finally make up the courage to write about how, when, and I was surprised how many women have reported similar experiences. That was the result of a combination therapy with their time. Resolution time to calm down, and my pregnancy hormones may take several months to admit that used to help me feel less panickedBut I had an idea it took more time for yourself every day in the near future, my days are not to be a mother walk planning, a little more than half an hour from the usual calm before the storm stretching. The solution was to give time for my monthly hormones, such as therapy for those stolen moments future.As helped my brain to create a realistic plan? For years, proponents of therapy for other people, but I never felt the need to go. My husband asked me - a real fear in his eyes - I want to leave this child, I must defend incredibly angry. Later, I was out of the garden varietal depression and may need to talk with a professional to understand that. So I was one of the highest grades in Psychology Today, my small town living appointment.It looked up and sit there and talk about myself for an hour was nervous planned. At first I was a stranger to me, I am that I can get back into his head that he was skeptical. Then I discovered something: that the simple act of things have been swirling around in my head, I am very worried about how clever therapist manageableOne day more dramatic and make you feel a little less terrible impact on sentiment was a child. He looked at me and what alternatives Well, 'he said? You have no way around the fact that there, you feel like you feel. What are you going to do? He suppressed his feelings? As a result, the child is likely to be even worse. Allow yourself to feel how you feel, and you just beat a path through it
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