We have only had sex three times in four years

Ihat our sex life is over. I've always been someone who encourage sex, and although I usually rejected, but I was trying. He added that after the birth of our children four y have been with the same woman for 11 years. We are in our mid-40s, and it seems tears ago, we have sex three times since then had.

I strongly suspect that this is not like me or find me attractive anymore. When I try to talk to her about it, follows.You argument seems very unhappy, so quietly share those feelings with them. But such an important debate will be fruitful only if both can be jointly addressed, and avoid blaming each other. Instead, in an effort to share as much for you to go without intimacy, and how much you miss him. We are aware that he was aware of the topic of sex outside the boundaries, but - not to wear - you really want to understand their feelings. Then just listen. Do not interrupt or react - reflects exactly what it says, and feels to hear the information you need to display properly. They are usually strong call relationships as children reached; feelings that followed, and the role of complex changes. More importantly, the role of her lover turned her mother, and many women find it hard both sides. It's not just a case of reducing the passion. The relationship is like a garden, it will require careful weeding, rehabilitation and care for the rest of your life.